若事事如意，就不叫生活了

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　　Even if the pace is very small, we should move forward step by step
　　就算步伐很小，也要步步前进。

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　　It feels good to work secretly, without complaining or complaining. Make small changes in yourself so that when you say goodbye to yourself, you can say to yourself, "It was great, I got over it."
　　偷偷努力的感觉很好，不声张也不埋怨。自己一点点地去改变，等你告别了自己时，你就可以对自己说：“太棒了，我终于熬过了”。

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　　Perfection is the most taboo thing in the world. Look at the moon on that day, once it is complete, it will soon be wearied; The fruit of the trees, once ripe, will soon fall. In everything there is always a little deficiency to hold on to.
　　世界上的事情，最忌讳的就是个十全十美。你看那天上的月亮，一旦圆满了，马上就要亏厌了;树上的果子，一旦熟透了，马上就要坠落。凡事总要稍留欠缺，才能持恒。
　　——莫言《檀香刑》

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　　There's no need to rush. It will always happen , at the right time and with the right person, and for the right reason.
　　无须匆忙，该来的总会来，在对的时间、和对的人，因为对的理由。

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　　If everything is going well, then it's not life at all.
　　如果事事都如意，那就不叫生活了
　　You must enjoy your own company. The upside: You don't have to twist yourself to conform or please others.
　　你必须很喜欢和自己作伴。好处是：你不必为了顺从别人或讨好别人而扭曲自己。
　　——费里尼

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　　A little boy asked his mother what is homosexuality. Then the mother explained that men and women are like the poles of a magnet. Most of them are opposites attracting, but some fall in love with the same polarity. So they need to overcome a lot of resistance to embrace each other.
　　有个小孩子问妈妈什么是同性恋, 该怎么看。妈妈解释说, 男女好像磁铁的两极, 大多数是异性相吸, 但是有的同极性的相爱了。他们需要克服很大的阻力，才能拥抱在一起。

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　　I won't talk about height in front of people who are not tall, I won't talk about weight in front of people who are overweight, I won't show love in front of people who have just been lovelorn, and won't talk about parents in front of unfortunate family members. Because I know nothing can be felt, can only respond with gentleness.
　　我会注意不在个子不高的人面前谈身高，不在体型偏胖的人面前谈体重，不在刚刚失恋的人面前秀恩爱，不在家庭不幸的人面前谈父母。不是因为这些不能谈，而是因为我知道任何事都不能感同身受，只能报以温柔。